imanassspankme:

Something I hear time and time again from Nice Guys™ is that they get friend-zoned, which I guess is some awful injustice. Nice Guys™ seem to regard their relationships with women as successful or valuable only if the relationship is sexual or romantic in nature. Therefor friendship equals failure.

But you know what, Nice Guys™? Fuck you. If you’re going to treat my friendship as though it’s falling short, you don’t deserve to be my friend.

I’m tired of being called a bitch because I’m attracted to people who aren’t you. I’m tired of you throwing pity parties because you think you’re entitled to my commitment and sex, all because you’ve “been there for me.” You have zero respect for me, which is made evident by the fact that you don’t give a shit about what I say unless it’s what you want to hear. I’m tired of having to let you down easy time after time because if I hurt your feelings, I’m afraid you’re going to hurt me.

You want to whine about how every girl chooses an asshole over you. God forbid you take a moment and think, “Hey, I’m the common denominator in all these failed attempts. Maybe, just maybe, there’s something I could be doing differently.”

Of course not, you’re nice.

i do hope the blogger who posted this reads my comments. but i will be straight forward with you all. any ‘nice guy’ who behaves like that is a fake nice guy. no genuine nice guy would be like that. any guy who is like that is just trying to act the nice guy part to guilt trip ladies into doing what they want them to do. these types of people are the scum of the human race at present. i have more respect for a complete asshole who only cares about sex and will just walk straight up to someone and ask if they want to fuck than some guy who tries to play ‘nice guy’ cards to get into a ladies panties.

this is a very sore point for the few people like myself remaining in this world. as thye are creating a very poor image for true ‘nice guys’ at heart like myself. a true nice guy would not care about whether you had sex with them or not even if you were in a long term relationship. a true nice guy cares more about everyone else than he does about himself. a true nice guy finishes the race last. because he always helps everyone else across the finish line and goes back to get anyone who has fallen down. they take time out of their lives to help improve the lives of those around them and of complete strangers. these are just some of the aspects of what a nice guy really is. if any of you out there believe you think a guy is a ‘nice guy’ and he does not do these things. i will give you a 95% chance that they are trying to ‘play their cards right’ to get something from you.

nice guys finish last. because they put themselves last in order to help everyone else without bias. genuine nice guys are an endagered species. beware the imposters.